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The Pornofication of Desire: How Fantasy is Rewiring the Male Mind

May 07, 2025 in opinion

Fantasy has created victims in the hundreds of millions. Porn isn’t just entertainment — it’s a medium that’s shaping minds, warping expectations, and giving ri...

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Rob Hutters wrote

The Drummer and the Snake: On Ending Loneliness when you have Social Anxiety

Aug 08, 2020 in correspondence

Loneliness hurts. The Drummer and the Snake is a letter about learning to make noise in a world that taught you to stay silent. It's about social anxiety, trauma, and the brutal but necessary process of reconnecting with life. You’ll learn how rhythm, trust, and daily courage help you shed the skin that no longer fits — and how to find your tribe by being heard.

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Mission

I help people and organizations break free from outdated modes of thinking — by changing how they see, decide, and relate to themselves and others.

Pillars

I divide my work into 3 pillars.

Learn

I help people navigate the complexities of modern life by writing, lecturing, coaching, and consulting on topics that align with the principles laid out in my manifesto.

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I believe in equality, the right to meaningful work, and economic justice and aim to level the playing field by offering tools of my own design.

Community

I organise community events for a diverse group of people, to foster relationship building and resilience among marginalised groups.

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The 3 governing themes and corresponding examples.

Curiosity & Compassion

A unifying philosophy We cannot afford to extend respect or understanding to ideologies that harm people — We must reject any belief system that justifies violence, discrimination, or the suppression of love.

Meaningful work & Economic Justice

Right to meaningful WorkNo human being shall feel like their work doesn't meaningfully contribute to the greater whole. It's dehumanising to work a job that doesn't intrinsically motivate.

Sustainability & Community

A service-oriented economy To protect our future, we must reduce our reliance on finite resources. The way forward is a service-based economy — one that values human creativity, care, and connection over consumption.