Modern Dating

Stop swiping without results.

Your looks aren’t holding you back — your profile is.

You need a masterclass in marketing.

The Problem

The problem is threefold:

• you don't know how to sell yourself.
• you don't understand what women want.
• you aren't offering anything that women value.

That's it.

The Solution

Learn how to create an amazing dating profile in 3 steps.

1. Use Bumble and select a profile picture that highlights either 1) a physical feature or 2) a hobby. Your picture should conform to a certain standard. The best way to tell if you have met this standard is to ask your female friends. Use professional pictures whenever possible.

2. On Bumble there’s space for a Bio. Think of it as you introducing yourself for the very first time. Your introduction needs to consist of three parts: a hook, icebreakers (conversation starters), and a value proposition (the benefits of dating you).

   • A hook fits your personality. Let’s say you want to be a dad and you’re funny. Then opening with a dad joke would be a good idea. Think of something that your future partner would find instantly relatable.
   • Think of conversation starters. Examples include, things you like talking about, or things you enjoy working on.
   • Think of your value proposition. What are you offering her when she enters a relationship with you?

3. Prompt engineering. I recommend using 2 types of prompts. The first type is a “value description” prompt. Choose a prompt where you can talk about your values. Use the final two prompts to talk about what life would be like with you. Here's an example group:

   • “I am known for (being) …”

     It doesn’t have to be this prompt, it can be anything, as long as you talk about your values.

   • “The best way to spend my day off is…”

     You should paint a picture of how amazing life would be with you in it. Talking about your day off gives her an excellent idea of what life would be like with you when you’re in a relaxed state.

   • “I’m looking for someone who…”

     You can use this space to show that you’re playful/fun. This is a chance to talk about the type of partner you’re looking for, but don’t be negative. Don’t list an arbitrary list of physical traits. If this description fits her then it tells her you're probably not a waste of time.

Need more help? Buy my worksheets. They contain everything you need to build an amazing dating profile that will get you likes. I update these constantly with the feedback that I receive. You will never pay for the updates. It's a one-time purchase.

Terms and Conditions

Effective Date: December 17th, 2024

1. Overview

By purchasing this product you agree to the terms of service rendered by Happily Disorganised, a company registered in the Netherlands, and owned by Rob Hutters.

These terms and conditions outline the rules and regulations for the purchase and use of the Modern Dating Worksheets.

If you do not agree, please refrain from purchasing.

2. Product Description

The Modern Dating Worksheets includes:

• A series of worksheets to improve the amount of likes you get on Bumble.
• Delivered digitally via a Notion link upon purchase.

The worksheets are provided for personal use only. Redistribution, resale, or commercial use of the content is strictly prohibited.

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6. Limitation of Liability

While these worksheets are designed to improve your dating app experience, I make no guarantees of specific outcomes. Your success will depend on your individual effort and circumstances.

Happily Disorganised is not responsible for any indirect, incidental, or consequential damages arising from the use of this product.

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